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My Blog Was Better When My Life Wasn't...
Tuesday, 3 April 2018
Hello everyone, how are you? How was your Easter weekend?
I've been thinking a lot lately about why no matter how many times I set myself the goal of getting back into blogging, the urge to post just isn't there like it used to me.
During this thinking time I've come up with a number of reasons that might be causing this lack of enthusiasm:
- I've never really had a niche, and so it's hard to focus on what I should post
- It's hard to start once you stop
- I'm never sure if anyone is really reading
- I don't know if I want to share my life as much as I used to
- Contradictory to point 3, I'm aware that quite a few people I know IRL are reading, friends, family, colleagues - and I can't edit which version of me they see on here like you do face to face
And while all of these are things that contribute to me not blogging - these are things that I've felt since I hit publish on my first ever blog, and they never used to stop me.
So what's really changed?
Well... in all honesty, my life is just much better now than it used to be.
Why I Stopped Blogging & Why I Decided To Come Back (sort of)
Thursday, 21 September 2017
I haven't blogged since May. In that time a whole (mainly grey) British summer has passed, I've been on holiday and turned another year older, and not once had the urge to put pen to paper or words to screen.
A culmination of reasons have led to this radio silence. My last post was about theManchester attack, and ever since then, it's felt a little frivolous to attempt to come up with some sort of motivational message or optimistic slant on the world. Not because the optimism and positivity wasn't there - but because I felt like I'd rather be out living it and experiencing it with the people I loved. I've also felt for a while that I don't go deep enough with my posts, that I'm always scratching at the light and fluffy surface rather than really tackling the important things in life.
Another reason is that I've never been that good at blogging. Sure I can write and I can take a pretty good snap at instagram, but in terms of gaining followers, or writing snappy headlines or setting up promotional social media and all those other things that seem to define 'blogging success' - I suck at. I've known that for a LONG time, and I was happy doing my own thing but then I stopped knowing what my own thing was, and the whole thing just seemed a little pointless.
Couple that with the plague of negativity and bitchiness which seemed to have filled up my twitter feed over the summer months, and not only did my motivation go, but my want for it all went too.
What it really came down to was that I had nothing to say, and nothing to contribute to the endless chitter chatter that is the internet. And I was ok with that. I was busy, or I wasn't busy but I was happy to enjoy some peace and quiet.
And to some extent I am still ok with not really being a blogger. I don't miss it and all it seems to stand for now. But I do miss writing, and interacting with people online. I miss sharing those more long-winded obscure thoughts, that aren't really appropriate to whack in a whatsapp group chat. I miss going home to a quiet and empty flat and using my evening to order my mind, viscously tap away at a keyboard, and then find a pretty but totally unrelated picture to go with it.
I'm not sure if coming back and doing those things really makes me a blogger again. I feel like maybe we need a whole range of new words to define people who write on the internet - because I know that there are bloggers out there who work damm hard on blogging. Bloggers that not only create a blog post but share it, publicise it, collaborate for it, charge for it, spend hours scrutinising it, that truly make an art of it. Whereas me? In comparison to those artists? I'm painting by numbers.
But I think that's ok. I think you can have a blog, without relating to being a blogger. I think the internet is big and weird enough for everyone to do their own thing. So I'm back, with no plan or schedule, or label.
I'm just writing on the internet and hoping somebody reads it x
My Insatgram Manifesto
Wednesday, 10 May 2017
Hey everyone, how are you? A month or so ago I published my blogging manifesto, and I was so pleased that it seemed to go down really well with you guys. So I thought why not do an Instagram one too?
Instagram is pretty much the social media channel I spend anytime thinking about. You'll find me dipping in and out of Twitter every now and then, and for a very short time this year I remembered I had a Facebook page for my blog, and then promptly forgot about it. But Instagram?
Instagram I literally spend hours scrolling through, planning and talking about. And I'm not ashamed of that as such, but it is something I've wrestled with.
For example when Twitter exploded with 'bot gate' over Easter I sat there thinking 'guys, come on, does it really matter?' Whilst also systematically unfollowing anyone that was using a bot. It is ultimately a social media channel, and as I don't earn a living from social media, and don't have any plans to in the future, it doesn't feature in my list of things that actually matter.
But I do really enjoy it. I like putting effort into my photos and seeking out things to photograph for it. It pushes me to get better at something that is only a hobby (when writing and theatre, as much as I love the are also a career). I like keeping up with what other people are doing when I don't have time to read their blogs, and I like updating people on what I'm up to when I don't have time to write my own. The only thing I really feel a little guilt about, is that the whole thing just isn't 'instant' anymore, however I want to let go of that, and figure as long as I'm always honest about things, then there is no need to beat myself up about it. So with all that in mind here is my Instagram manifesto.
My Blogging Manifesto
Wednesday, 5 April 2017
Ok So I've tried writing several introductions for this post and all of them felt really 'meh' so instead of being too try hard I'm just going to jump right in.
I wanted to write myself bit of a 'blog manifesto' as recently I've felt things have really started to settle into place with this spot of mine. What with the change of name last summer, and the creative roll I've been on since the beginning of this year, I finally feel like my blog, and my theatre work make sense together. Hence why 'My Work' now has a much bigger presence on here, because I finally feel like I can use this blog for business and pleasure if you will.
With that in mind I thought I'd share what my thinking behind my blog and my attitude towards it are, and hopefully whenever I start to feel lost again in the future (because y'know bloggers block can rear it's ugly head at any given point) this post will remind me why I'm here and what it's all for.
So Without further ado...
Finding My Voice
Monday, 20 February 2017
Hey, everyone, how are you? How was your weekend? Mine was quiet but productive. I created a little 'get your shit together retreat' for myself and I have to say it's done wonders! I really felt like I needed to press the reset button, so I cleaned and tidied my flat and spent a lot of time working stuff out, and now for the first time in a while I feel like I am back on top of things.
Back on top of things, doesn't necessarily mean I have accomplished everything off my to do list. In fact while I started the weekend thinking that the aim was to finish things, I realised the real purpose of the weekend was to work out what I wanted to get started. Sure I have ongoing projects and I made progress with them over the last couple of days, but it was more about working out where those things fit into the bigger picture. What comes next? Where am I heading? Is that where I want to go?
How I'm Planning My Instagram
Friday, 27 January 2017
Hey everyone! How is your week going? Mine is going so fast and not to wish my life away too much, but I am hoping it keeps up the pace as Wednesday's are by far and away my longest day!
Today I want to get back on schedule and have a quick catch up about everyone's favourite social media platform - instagram.
It isn't actually that long since I last shared how I edit my instagram photo's but since then I've bought a sony a6000 and spent a lot more time not just editing a photo but really thinking about what I'm photographing and posting.
I really struggle with the idea of having a 'theme' and for a long time really rallied against putting too much planning into my instagram. I only have one instagram account which I use for my blog and personal photos, so I liked the idea of keeping things 'instant.' And like I do with my blogging schedule, I still like to leave room for posting in the moment. However my photography and instagram has become another creative outlet for me. One that isn't linked to theatre or writing and therefore never feels like 'work.' I like that my photos don't have to be perfect but that I can also spend hours on them just for fun.
My blog and my instagram are the only places I have to share my photo's so naturally, if I'm putting a lot of effort into taking them, then I want my instagram to reflect that.
Towards the end of last year I finally gave in and started to think about a theme and I'm now really happy with how my 'grid' looks (although you'll never hear me say 'grid goals') So if like me you're rethinking how you use instagram but don't really know how to start, here are my tips for planning out your theme.
H O W T O | leave good comments
Friday, 2 December 2016
One of the most popular posts I've ever written is "How To Share The Love As A Blogger& Why It's Important." I started that post by stating that I am in no means a ln expert blogger. In fact I have another post currently say in my drafts titled "Technically - I'm a bad blogger" That still stands, I'm not an expert and as a rule I steer clear of "how to's" when it comes to blogging. Mainly because if I concern myself too much with all the things I SHOULD be doing, I'd never get around to actually posting. And my posting is sporadic enough as it is!
However, like sharing the love there is one thing I think is super important when it comes to blogging. Commenting.
Blog Posts I'm yet to write
Tuesday, 22 November 2016
Hello everyone! And a very hapy Tuesday! How are you all?
I'm finding it really REALLY hard to stick to a blogging schedule at the moment. It's not that I have bloggers block as such, it's more that I'll come up with a post idea but then whn it comes down to writing it, the words just don't come naturally. A bit like, when you've lost your voice, you have things to say, but you can't actually say them without forcing it. Does that make sense?
I've seen quite a few travvel bloggers making a list of all the travel tales they are yet to tell and asking people which one they'd like to hear next, so I thought... why not do that but with the blog posts I'm yet to write? I'm literally using my bloggers block to blog! Plus hopefully some of these ideas sound interesting to you and with a little bit of encouragement from you guys I can find my voice again!
So, here is a list of blog posts I am yet to write. Let me know in the comments which ones you'd like to see actually published!
I really needed a break...
Tuesday, 1 November 2016
Hello everyone! Happy November! How the heckers are you? I know, it's been a while.
Normally after accidental blogging breaks I start my first post back with an apology or a promise to do better but to be honest? I'm kind of over beating myself up about blogging, and not only that, but as a reader I genuinely don't expect apologies from my favourite bloggers when they take a break. We all take breaks, don't we? We all have emails that go unanswered, commments we know should be replied to and, no doubt a hundred posts we SHOULD have written. But nobody in the ENTIRE world, blogger or no blogger, is on top of their game all of the time.
The fact is everybody needs a break.
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